I’d rather not tell someone who my boyfriend is if I don’t know who they are, sorry.
So I have an interview tomorrow and I’m really scared for several reasons.
1- It’s a group interview and the last interview i had was alost 3 years ago and was for McDonalds and was a personal interview..
2- I’m super anxious and don’t do well around people
3- I don’t want to do bad
4- I’m terrified that something will happen and they will find out I’m trans
Tbh that’s really the main reason I’m scared. I just really don’t know what to do and if anyone has been to group interviews before how did you go? I just don’t want to have to do the whole please explain if they ask for my birth certificate and stuff :(
You are not allowed to say
- He’s a boy, but
- He’s not actually a boy
- He’s actually transgender
- He doesn’t have the right “parts”
- He was born a girl
- He used to be a girl
You are definitely not allowed to say
- and “Hers”
When I have specifically told you to use
- and “His”
If you don’t know don’t assume; ask.
If you do know, don’t out.
The only circumstance when it’s okay for you to out me is if I say it is okay.
The average person was a 1 in 18,000 chance of being murdered.
If the person is trans, that chance turns into 1 in 12 chance of being murdered.
Think about that for a moment.
How disgusting is it, how disappointing is it,
how monstrous is it that being a trans person makes you more than 1000 times more likely to be killed
Seriously I can’t even string together enough words to represent how utterly abominable that is
So as some of you may be aware I’ve started a surgery fund and it took all my courage to do that because it is so hard for me to ask for help. Recently I just got on to check any progress (of which there has been none :( unfortunately) and I received this lovely message.
And no matter that people keep telling me “It’s just one person” it feels like the whole world is crashing down and I just feel like I really shouldn’t ask for help, I’m dead poor and can’t get this surgery without help.
I just needed to get this off my chest as well as to make sure all my followers know what this person is like and to stay away from them.
I hope everyone has an amazing night/day and I love you all.
There are more nipples in this world then there are people…
1 year 11 months on T. 1 year 8 months post-op.
General update. I’m also tired so please excuse me not making sense at some parts.
You’re looking really good :) congrats on the transformation! so amazing :)